{"id":646,"date":"2009-01-07T23:23:50","date_gmt":"2009-01-07T23:23:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.diaryofanadi.co.uk\/?p=646"},"modified":"2009-01-07T23:23:50","modified_gmt":"2009-01-07T23:23:50","slug":"two-faced-pupils","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/?p=646","title":{"rendered":"Two-faced Pupils"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last year I had a pupil who couldn&#8217;t afford her lessons and she cancelled a lot of them. In fact, between July and the beginning of October  she cancelled six lessons  &#8211; that&#8217;s about once a fortnight, or every other lesson (and there were cancellations before July, too). It&#8217;s also worth noting that because she was saving for a holiday, then <em>went<\/em> on that holiday,\u00a0there was a period where she had no lessons anyway, which makes the cancellation rate even worse.<\/p>\n<p>I knew she was strapped for cash and I never had a go at her about this. Even on the occasions when the cancellation was with less than 48 hours notice I didn&#8217;t charge her. She was a nice girl, good driver, nearly ready for test, etc.<\/p>\n<p>At the start of October I got a text message cancelling yet another lesson. My mobile phone uses Outlook and text messages are shown as previews. I saw the usual &#8216;got to cancel&#8217; and &#8216;sorry&#8217; phrases and left it at that. What I hadn&#8217;t seen was the request lower down the message to book one for 25th October. Obviously, I didn&#8217;t reply.<\/p>\n<p>On the morning of 25th October I got a text asking where I was. I replied that we had nothing booked&#8230; but later on it dawned on me to look at her previous texts to see if I&#8217;d missed anything, and that&#8217;s when I discovered this request at the end of her last cancellation. Although it wasn&#8217;t my fault\u00a0I apologised profusely. But she refused to acknowledge my texts or phone calls, and I gave up.<\/p>\n<p>Just to summarise for a moment:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>the pupil cancels lesson after lesson over a total of maybe 10 months<\/li>\n<li>this eventually\u00a0creates a huge mix up resulting in her thinking she&#8217;s booked a new lesson and me not having any knowledge of such a booking<\/li>\n<li>this is all on top of the lost money (\u00a3140 between July-September, plus lost bookings with other pupils)\u00a0and messed up diary her cancellations have caused me in that whole period<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Well, I found out from another pupil this morning that her mother said I had &#8216; let her daughter down &#8216;.<\/p>\n<p>I was really pissed off on hearing this. What made it worse was that I was out with another pupil yesterday and I saw this girl walking down the street with her friend. Young people are extremely bad at hiding their feelings or behaving in a mature way: it was obvious she had seen me and even more obvious she was pretending she hadn&#8217;t. Better still, her friend turned round to have a look after they&#8217;d walked by. So it couldn&#8217;t have been plainer that she was behaving like a spoiled brat.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of the downsides to the job, unfortunately.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last year I had a pupil who couldn&#8217;t afford her lessons and she cancelled a lot of them. In fact, between July and the beginning of October she cancelled six lessons &#8211; that&#8217;s about once a fortnight, or every other lesson (and there were cancellations before July, too). It&#8217;s also worth noting that because she [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[121],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-latestposts"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/646","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=646"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/646\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=646"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=646"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/diaryofanadi.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=646"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}