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It was near the end of the test and she told me she&#8217;d given up because <em>she knew she&#8217;s failed<\/em>. The problem is she hadn&#8217;t &#8211; and it was only the error on the manoeuvre that caused the fail.<\/p>\n<p>This third time she failed on parallel park again. The examiner said to her: &#8221; You&#8217;re a good driver and I want you to put in for your test straight away. You just need to get your nerves under control &#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>But this is where it got interesting. I looked at her result sheet and saw the fault.\u00a0I pointed out she had only failed on the parallel park. She then called her sister and mum to tell them she&#8217;d failed.<\/p>\n<p>When talking to her sister she said &#8221; my instructor doesn&#8217;t know this, but I bumped the kerb and the examiner asked me if I wanted to correct it, and I said &#8216;no&#8217; &#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>When she&#8217;d finished the call I explained that this was a lifeline and if she had have corrected it she would have passed. She acted surprised at this, and I found <em>that<\/em> surprising. But as we drove back home it became a little clearer what she was hiding from me:  <strong>the examiner had actually told her in the car at the end\u00a0that if she&#8217;d have corrected it he would have passed her<\/strong> . What had happened is that she&#8217;d spit her dummy out, she knew it, and she was trying\u00a0not to admit it\u00a0&#8211; <em>and I made certain she realised that she&#8217;d thrown away a pass as a result!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I could kill them sometimes.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week I had a pupil on test. It was her third attempt. Before Christmas she failed on one thing (parallel park). The examiner said to her at the end: &#8221; I&#8217;m really sorry to do this, it was a perfect drive, but you just need to practice that manoeuvre a little bit more &#8220;. 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